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If you're reading this, I just want you to know your week will be filled with good vibes, good energy and great blessings!
First of all I would like to say thank you for putting time aside to read this.

 It's been a long time since I blogged but now I am back! Normally I would drop these blogs in the evening but why wait until the end of the day to spread some positivity? 

 I was in a really bad place before, the shittest place I have ever been in (sorry for my language but that's the best word to describe it) I have never experienced such a negative, dark space in my life. I couldn't cope with the situations I was experiencing, I just felt everything was going wrong, I was literally going through 'hell' should I say. 
It was only on Friday Evening/ Saturday morning when everything started to change.
What changed? I did.
Only YOU are your biggest obstacle when it comes to happiness.. only you can control your happiness.

 It was literally on Friday evening/ Saturday morning when I started to realise the importance of giving, gratitude, love and positivity.

 GIVING

 Whatever you put out there in the universe, it will come back to you. Whether you like it or not, it will. have you ever noticed when things are bad, more bad things continue to happen? that's because you're giving your attention to the bad... so the bad things will come back to you. 
I am an altruistic person, I gain happiness from making others happy but one thing I realised is that.. you can't give others if you're not giving yourself. 
There's a difference between being selfless and being stupid, I was being stupid. I was giving people something that I didn't have within myself. While I was in a bad place I was giving others, comfort, giving others motivation, giving them happiness but was I giving it to myself ? no. I finally started to realise what you give unto yourself, others will give to you. I started to give myself love, I started to give myself peace, I was catering to myself and giving myself everything I give to others. I am a VERY giving person, so when I sat down and gave myself all the attention I started to give to others.. BLOODY HELL...I WAS ON CLOUD 9.

 Task - put aside time today to compliment yourself, dedicate time to love yourself. there's so much beauty within you and no one else will truly be able to see it until you see it within yourself. TODAY. Allow yourself to see it. write a list of things you love about yourself, this isn't you being cocky, selfish or you being self absorbed.. this is you being you, this is you loving yourself and you DESERVE to love yourself.. ask yourself 'why am I so amazing?' it's not a hard question, it's only hard if you make it hard.
GRATITUDE

 We are all experiencing something wrong in our lives right now but the beauty of life isn't in what's wrong but in what's right..there is WAY more right than wrong in this world, i's just up to you where you put your focus. 
When you start to say thank you for the little things, you will be given more things to be grateful for. When you stop focusing on what is wrong and start focusing on what is right, you realise so much is right.. you can literally go DAYS saying thank you for everything in your life because every single minute is a blessing within it's self. 
If you're in a position where you feel everything is going wrong and you're finding it hard to find gratitude.. just think.. whatever you're going through could be 10x worse.

 Task - start your day with gratitude and end your day with gratitude, instead of focusing on what we want or what we have lost.. focus on what we have and be grateful for it. be grateful for sight, be grateful for life.. there's so much to be grateful for. 
put time aside right now and write down 5 things you are grateful for, do the same thing before you go to bed.
do this everyday and I promise you your life will change.
you can't be given more if you're not even grateful for what you already have.
LOVE
Love is the most powerful drug, nothing feels better than love. nothing feels better when you're feeling love from someone.. make sure you surround yourself with love, not even about surrounding yourself with people you love but things you love.. listen to the music YOU LOVE, watch the movies YOU LOVE, eat the food YOU LOVE, the best way to make yourself feel loved is filling yourself up with things and people you love.. ALSO surrounding yourself with people who truly truly love you, when you're in a place of love I am telling you.. you will feel good. you can't think negative thoughts when you're laughing, you can't feel like crap when you're dancing and singing your favourite song..
put yourself in a environment where you feel love and I am telling you more love will come to you.

 Task - do something you love today, listen to your favourite song, sing, rap, dance, do something that makes you happy, watch something funny, do something that will allow you to experience love.. talk to someone you love, talk to someone who makes you feel good and shows you love.. today.. surround yourself with love.

 POSITIVITY

 The best till last, POSITIVITY.
There is a reason why the positive sign is a +, the reason is positivity ONLY attracts good things, when you're listening to a good song, you attract good feelings, when you attract good feelings, you attract good thoughts, when you attract good thoughts.. you attract good actions. have you realised you always dance best when you're in a good mood? it doesn't matter if you have two left feet but you dance at your ultimate best when you're in a place full of positivity. 
Has there ever been a time when you think about someone and they pop up? .. that's no coincidence. 

 Task - try and change your outlook on things, be positive.. put yourself in a positive situation by surrounding yourself with positivity.. be around positive people, listen to good music, JUST DO EVERYTHING THAT MAKES LIFE POSITIVE.
In our lives, we want change. I kept wanting change, I kept wanting happiness, wanting love, wanting more people to appreciate me, wanting more more more.. don't want it. BE IT.

 be the change you want to happen, you want happiness.. be the happiness you want. you want love.. be the love you want.. you want more people to appreciate you? appreciate yourself the way you want, you want more blessing and positivity in your life? BE the blessing you want in someone else life and BE positive yourself.
the objective life is to be.. there is a reason why we are called human BEings.
I AM 100, I LOVE BEING 100 AND I AM THE REASON WHY I'M 100... YOU CAN BE 100 TOO, IF YOU ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE.

 Love and Blessings,

 Hayls xx





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I hope your week has started with good vibes, good energy and more blessings!
WOW.

 It's actually been two months since I last blogged, I don't know how I allowed this to happen but it's happened. I was looking to take a break for about a week and then one week became two months, oh how time flies. Anyways I just wanted to tell you that I am back for this one post and then I will be taking my step back simply because I have accepted I am not 100% and I go by the motto you need to be 100, to give 100.

 I love humans and I live by the policy of honesty, I will not lie to everyone and I certainly won't lie to myself  and state that I am 100% when I am not and I respect everyone enough to know when it's best to cater to myself so I am able to come back and cater to more people stronger and wiser.

 I feel a lot of us go through life dodging the simple question of 'how are you?'  
Ask yourself that question and tell yourself your honest answer. why? because you deserve the truth.

 Those 3 words are the most hard hitting words any one can ever face, why? because reality kicks in, your reality will kick in. We are at a stage in life when the world of social media has taken over and if you're not okay, you have to hide it but my brothers and sisters, I am writing to you to help you understand in order for you to be okay, you need to accept that you're not.
Not everyone will relate to this right now, some people will relate today, some will relate tomorrow but that doesn't matter, all that matters is someone will read it and accept their current situation and accept that they're not okay. If you know someone who is not okay today please send them this because they need to understand that sometimes we need to breakdown to break through. Do you know what? it took someone out of my comfort zone to tell me that I am not okay, I was blind to it, I didn't want to accept it but if you have someone in your life that has accepted that you're not okay, let them in because through acceptance is progress.

 Recently I had a huge stumble, a stumble of faith within myself and self belief, not only did I lose myself but I gave up on my self, I broke down - Now I am not writing this blog post to tell you about my hardships, I am writing to you so you can accept and understand that it's okay not to be okay, many times we lie to ourselves and that is so deadly, deceiving ourselves into thinking we are okay, every single day you lie stating you are okay and the day you break you break HARD because you allowed it to build, build and build.
 I feel many times people don't expect me to cry, break and feel pain because I am the motivational speaker, speaking greatness into existence and speaking life unto others but during this time I had to really start speaking life into myself. I was broken mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually, the feeling of numbness is something I have never felt before, the feeling of confusion, depression, anxiety, hatred and lack of faith were also new feelings to me, new to this extent anyway- Yes I have felt these feelings before but not all at once and definitely not this hard. In the past few weeks I  went through a serious break down in all aspects of my life and I honestly was just lost, not only did I feel lonely but I felt alone, feeling lonely and being alone are two complete different things, feeling alone is something I NEVER want anyone to feel so if you think you're alone, you're not because I am here fighting with you. Sadly I allowed myself to feel alone because I pushed everyone away and I started to feel sorry for my myself, not only did I let myself down but I let the people around me down and that's what cut me up 10x harder. 
Many times I feel we are so quick to scrape amongst the surface and so afraid to accept what is going on in our lives, I lied to myself for many months that I was happy, I felt the idea of happiness but I did not feel happiness and 4 months into 2016, I did not feel happiness. I feel we are thrown in situations to not just go through it but to grow through it, we are put through situations to accept our truth because at the end of the day if you don't reject the lie, the lie will reject you, the situation I faced in my life recently has patterned me and shaped me differently, not only do I look at life differently but I look at people differently. I was told sometimes when things are going so good for you, you appreciate but you only appreciate them because they're good so when will you have time to appreciate it if things go bad, things had to go completely left for me to truly count my blessings, not only have I learned to take one step at a time and count my blessings but I have I actually accepted that I am not okay, through accepting that I was not okay, I was able to just grow, I feel myself growing because I had to accept that I was at a standstill point first - 
now if you are okay,  then let's stop assuming others are, we ALWAYS do, it's a common human mistake to assume that someone is okay just because they haven't shown you they're not.. people fight so many battles and just because they're smiling, just because they're on Instagram and Facebook does not mean they're not broken too.. we need to stop assuming and start accepting -  don't shut someone out because you're okay and don't shut someone out because you're not okay, if YOU are not okay and YOU know someone genuinely cares about you or a group of people do, let them in allow them to accept you're not okay too, due to anxiety and overthinking I actually started to doubt the loved ones around me due to trust issues, not only did I lose myself but I started to become dependent on one person, not only did I become dependent but I was in denial that I was dependent on them, I lied to myself and that was so deadly, I am not saying cut anyone out but learn to stand on your own two feet. Through talking to a close friend of mine I established that sometimes the best thing is not to think, but to feel...however you feel right now reading this, YOU act on those feelings..don't think, just feel.

 if you are reading this and you feel you haven't been letting people in, you act on that feeling and let someone in.
if you are reading this and you feel you haven't been there for someone, you act on that feeling and you go be there for someone.
if you are reading this and you feel you haven't accepted your current situation, you go ahead and act on that feeling, accept your current situation.
I was in a dark dark dark place and only yesterday did I realise, your current situation is NOT your final destination.
I CAN DO IT, YOU CAN DO IT, WE CAN DO IT.

 I am altruistic, I gain warmth from making others happy or helping them to happiness because happiness is a journey, not a destination...

 if you are battling anything right now and you need help.. email me, I am going to put my personal email hayley.mule@gmail.com

 whether you are battling something to do with faith, sexuality, self development, health, anything.. if you feel alone you're not because I won't let you be alone, i know how it feels to be lonely and I made a promise to God last night that I won't allow anyone I know to feel lonely ever again. Yesterday I let GO and let God, I was truthful to myself and truthful to God I am not okay but growth can be take place hand in hand, I don't have to grow alone and neither do you so if you need me.. I am here.
I hope this has touched one person today and allowed someone to accept their current situation.

 Love and Blessings,

 Hayls x
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Thoughtful Thursday are here! . NEW EDITION TO THE BLOG - THOUGHTFUL THURSDAYS. This is when I talk about issues which will make you think more, These posts will be more personal, Thoughtful Thursdays will include motivational testimonies and a  Q&A platform where sometimes I will allow you to ask me questions or advice which I can then use to uplift others.

 Don't judge a book by it's cover! DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY THINGS WE CAN RELATE THIS TOO?

 Many times I feel we judge too QUICK, with no background, no knowledge with NOTHING. We just judge based on the image we have seen - you do know people choose what picture's they upload on social media right? It's the same way people choose what filter to apply to their pictures. We do not know everything and assuming we know someone's current life situation because of how they post is WRONG, VERY WRONG INDEED.

 I feel the whole 'money' image has gone a bit too far, assuming someone is poor because they wear rebooks is wrong. Have you ever seen how Bill Gates dresses? He does NOT wear Balenciagas,diamond rings and Louboutins. I think assuming we know people through the image they portray is wrong, some people can be the happiest on social media and have severe depression - you really don't know. 
Some fruits can't be identified as mouldy until you actually cut into the fruit.

 Another reason I say 'image' isn't everything is because a lot of people put up a front that they're in a good place and they could be going through HELL - assuming someone is alright just because they're smiling in your face is wrong. We need to stop looking at the covers of books and start reading the content - looking at the cover will take you nowhere but reading the book can take you anywhere.

Have an amazing evening and amazing weekend because YOU'RE AMAZING!
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Motivating Mondays is here! A NEW WEEK = NEW BLESSINGS. Motivating Mondays are here to take you to higher and brighter places, if you feel you can not see those brighter places, keep climbing.. the sun will come. WOW! Hoping your valentines was full of love, joy and happiness. 
Okay so this is something I am always talking about and I thought it was best I would post it because it is a crucial topic. 
Prevention is better than cure, don't put yourself in a situation where you know you may need saving after - A good example is revision  EXAM'S HAVE NOT COME YET - Prevent yourself from failing now with revision rather than curing a bad grade with a resit.

 Prevention is better than cure, any situation you know can lead to repercussions, AVOID IT.  As I said this can be applied to many issues in life such as health - eat healthy and work out now to avoid a health problems in the future. Learn how to handle your money now so that when you're dealing with big finance situations such as mortgage or investment you can prevent yourself going into debt because you've learned how to handle money correctly.

 This relates really well with the question 'what are you doing today that can help you with your tomorrow?' 
Is there anything that you can do today that will make your tomorrow easier? 
Many times we leave things until last minute and become so disorganised but if we planned before and prevented the disorganisation that would have been better than calming down after a panic attack.

 It's only February, IT'S NOT TOO LATE to start revision, IT'S NOT TOO LATE to start organising your year, IT'S NOT TOO LATE to fix up. 
Prevent your year from being unproductive. prevention is better than cure, DON'T get to the end of the year trying to cure all the mistakes you made this year when you can prevent them NOW!
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Motivating Mondays is here! A NEW WEEK = NEW BLESSINGS. Motivating Mondays are here to take you to higher and brighter places, if you feel you can not see those brighter places, keep climbing.. the sun will come. WOW! January went so fast, hoping that the month of Feb is full of blessing, opportunities and good vibes.

Okay, so on Thursday the 4th of Feb the craziest thing happened to me, the best thing happened to me. It was probably the best day of my life. On the 4th of Feb I won the 'BE (Black Enterprise) Mogul - Most Influential & Inspirational Black Entreprenuer in Britain for Under 21s - supported by Natwest, 10 Downing Street and Mayor of London. For those who don't know this, I am actually 18, being 18 and able to say I have that title to my name is nothing but a blessing but success only comes to you through work, not by magic. - Action Jackson


After winning this award I have been asked by many many people, HOW DID YOU DO IT? So I thought I would make a blog post expanding on different things I had to do and how I was able to do it.

So the dream first started in September 2013 (I was 16 years old) when I teacher asked me what I wanted to do and I replied back 'I want to be a motivational speaker and to own my own company' THAT SAME DAY A motivational speaker came to talk to us in school (what a coincidence aye ) Action Jackson came into school and asked me what I wanted to be and I stated that I wanted to be a motivational speaker.. It was there and then I knew motivational speaking was destined for me.. why? I SPOKE IT INTO EXISTENCE. 
Everything I blog about, I implement it into my life and I feel the only way someone can be successful is through following success.. I can't be motivating you to greatness and I am not reaching for greatness myself. If I want people to follow success, I have to create a success story for me to share.. 

One thing I had to do was change my mentality, the mentality I had in December 2015 is completely different to the mentality I have right now. Within those 2 months it finally hit me, it hit me that time does not last forever, tomorrow isn't promised - so what are you going to do today that can move the world forever? I had to keep asking myself this question.. what is it that I am going to do today that will shake the world forever? 
Many times we plan for tomorrow, plan to do these big things for tomorrow but these 'things' need to be done today - DON'T WASTE TIME OR TIME WILL WASTE YOU. it's your choice. 

I had to put myself in a space where I loved myself so much that no one else's opinions can bring me down or divert me from pursuing my dreams. I have experienced negative comments about my motivational speaking and dreams.. I have had 'friends' (not my friends anymore) laugh in my face, teachers telling me I can't do it and certain people waiting for me to give up - few months ago people's opinions or views would REALLY effect me, there was even a time I was going to stop Inside A Dream and motivational speaking because I started to let OTHER people take control of my life.(that story will come another day) Earlier this year I learned I AM IN CONTROL, no one is controlling my destiny but ME and God. This year I learned not to rely on no one, at the end of the day YOU'VE GOT YOU. No one owes you ANYTHING.  YOU owe yourself, you owe yourself happiness, love, joy and success.. so the one thing I took from myself was happiness, love joy and success because I owe myself all those things.

Even the most beautiful flower doesn't blossom over night, don't expect good things to happen over night.. everything takes time. Even a life takes 9 months to develop so why would you think greatness will come any sooner than that? chill, just chill. Don't expect success at a certain time, when it's the right time.. it's the right time. 

The last little thing I will touch up on is company, who I surround myself with is VERY important. For you to be winning, you have to be with the winning team. I SURROUND MYSELF WITH WINNERS - you are a product of your environment.
 All my conversations are building conversations ; I can not entertain conversations which will not help me grow or will not help the other person grow. Not only is it important to surround yourself with people who uplift you but surround yourself with others you can uplift. Don't rely TOO much on the company know, have your own backbone - no one will believe in you if you don't believe in yourself. KNOW YOUR WORTH, KNOW YOUR VALUE AND BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. YOU'RE AMAZING. 

GET YOURSELF A MENTOR. PLEASE.

I will scream about mentors for 500 years, A mentor is someone who is advanced in the field you want to go into.. the reason why a mentor is important is because they've made 100 mistakes more than you, this means you're going to make 100 less mistakes than you're meant to.

So this is a lot to take in so I thought I would summarise this whole blog post into an ABC.

FOR YOU TO ACHIEVE, YOU NEED TO BELIEVE BUT BELIEF AND ACHIEVEMENT ONLY HAPPENS WITH GOOD COMPANY.
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Motivating Mondays is here! A NEW WEEK = NEW BLESSINGS. Motivating Mondays are here to take you to higher and brighter places, if you feel you can not see those brighter places, keep climbing.. the sun will come. WOW! January went so fast, hoping that the month of Feb is full of blessing, opportunities and good vibes.
The most successful people are inspirational right? They wouldn't be successful if they weren't inspirational. The people we look up to are known for solving problems, helping people and inspiring a generation - my question is what are you doing to help or inspire someone else?

 We are in a time where recognition is key, that's why we have social media so people can recognise who we are and what we are doing but is the recognition your portraying good?
 If someone goes through the actions you're taking in life, are they inspiring? 
Inspiring yourself is one thing but by inspiring someone else you're inspiring the world. 
The most successful people were the biggest inspirations - Jesus, Prophet Mohammed peace be upon him, Martin Luther King, Malcom x, Jamal Edwards, Stormzy, Lenny Henry, Nadia Rose, Oprah Winfrey, Taraji P Henson, Lady Leshurr and many more - The reason why people follow them and the reason why they're reaching success is because the movements they're making are inspirational, the movements they're making are helping someone else.
You may look at a few names and be like 'what have they done?' (which I doubt) but they set an example and I feel we all should be too.

 It's not about uplifting yourself but uplifting a generation. Do something to inspire someone else, do something to help someone else.. you never know where your inspiration can take someone. 
I had feedback from a reader telling me my blog posts helped her get a unconditional from her university - I want my actions to impact others because you'll always remember the person who wiped your tears over the person who made you cry.

 If you go alone, you go fast but if we go together, we go far.
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Thoughtful Thursday are here! . NEW EDITION TO THE BLOG - THOUGHTFUL THURSDAYS. This is when I talk about issues which will make you think more, These posts will be more personal, Thoughtful Thursdays will include motivational testimonies and a  Q&A platform where sometimes I will allow you to ask me questions or advice which I can then use to uplift others.
Sorry for the no Motivating Monday post this week! I moved back to Uni this week and got really tied up! FORGIVE ME PLEASEEEEE *does puppy eyes* 

Anyways, this week's post is about being a seed.. YES, A SEED. Sometimes we have plans, ambitions, goals but people around us can try bury them - this can be out of jealousy, pure cruelty or misunderstanding the vision. One thing you need to know is that not everyone will understand your vision, not everyone will understand your goals and ambitions and it's okay! if people burry your idea's, it's okay. If people sleep on you, IT'S OKAY.

 Sometimes we look to others for validation and we get really upset when they don't pay attention or put us down,  LISTEN, DON'T LET SOMEONE ELSE'S VISION IMPACT YOURS. We are all on different journeys in life, you can ask for advice.. this thing we call life can't be faced alone we will need guidance, we will need help but you have control over your life, how can you allow another driver to drive your bus, COME ON MATEEE!

 If anyone ever puts you down, it's a better reason for you to rise up. Build your house from the ground floor so you're able to have a bigger house. No one builds their house from the second floor. Stop letting negative opinions from other people burry you, use the opinions to help you grow.

 Have an amazing week because you're amazing!

 LOOKING TO DO TESTIMONIES IN THE NEXT FEW WEEKS - IF YOU HAVE ANY PLEASE EMAIL INFO@INSIDEADREAM.CO.UK OR CONTACT ME VIA THE CONTACT BOX ON MY BLOG
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