Thoughtful Thursday are here! . NEW EDITION TO THE BLOG - THOUGHTFUL THURSDAYS. This is when I talk about issues which will make you think more, These posts will be more personal, Thoughtful Thursdays will include motivational testimonies and a Q&A platform where sometimes I will allow you to ask me questions or advice which I can then use to uplift others.
What type of conversations are you having?
Ask yourself this please, it's really important you start to think about the conversations you're surrounding yourself with.
I won't even lie to you, last year was the year I transitioned my content of conversations, this year I have come to a place where I actually can't entertain unproductive conversations and I feel it should be like that for everyone.. You're probably thinking what is a unproductive conversation?
ASK YOURSELF THESE QUESTIONS
Is this conversation adding to your happiness?
Is this conversation adding to your future?
Will you build from this conversation?
What will you gain from this conversation and What will you lose?
If you're losing more than you gain then that's when there is a problem. You could be thinking what can you lose from a conversation, well you can lose time if that conversation is a waste of time,
LEAVE THOSE TYPE OF CONVERSATIONS OUT OF YOUR LIFE.
Conversations are a platform of communication, if your platform of communication is not building you up, you're not going to build in life.
Imagine looking back over 2016 and realising you're not going nowhere due to the conversations you're surrounding yourself with. MAD.
LISTEN..
You know when a conversation is wrong when you leave the conversation feeling the same, each conversation you have in your life should change you.. change your way of thinking, moving.. it should potentially change your life..
Haven't you realised the most successful people always say their spark came from a life changing conversation? whether they were in a situation or dilemma.. a conversation they experienced in that time in their life helped them..
so tell me, when will your conversations start to help you?
Have an amazing day because you're amazing!
- inspired by@ Demy Joseph -
What type of conversations are you having?
Ask yourself this please, it's really important you start to think about the conversations you're surrounding yourself with.
I won't even lie to you, last year was the year I transitioned my content of conversations, this year I have come to a place where I actually can't entertain unproductive conversations and I feel it should be like that for everyone.. You're probably thinking what is a unproductive conversation?
ASK YOURSELF THESE QUESTIONS
Is this conversation adding to your happiness?
Is this conversation adding to your future?
Will you build from this conversation?
What will you gain from this conversation and What will you lose?
If you're losing more than you gain then that's when there is a problem. You could be thinking what can you lose from a conversation, well you can lose time if that conversation is a waste of time,
LEAVE THOSE TYPE OF CONVERSATIONS OUT OF YOUR LIFE.
Conversations are a platform of communication, if your platform of communication is not building you up, you're not going to build in life.
Imagine looking back over 2016 and realising you're not going nowhere due to the conversations you're surrounding yourself with. MAD.
LISTEN..
You know when a conversation is wrong when you leave the conversation feeling the same, each conversation you have in your life should change you.. change your way of thinking, moving.. it should potentially change your life..
Haven't you realised the most successful people always say their spark came from a life changing conversation? whether they were in a situation or dilemma.. a conversation they experienced in that time in their life helped them..so tell me, when will your conversations start to help you?
Have an amazing day because you're amazing!
- inspired by
This has been on my mind all week! I have learnt to dismiss myself from particular conversations/group chat discussions and I have felt so much better about doing so.
ReplyDeleteA great read!
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I am happy knowing that this post was relevant to you and has helped you in your current situation! x
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